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    Can I get HPV from my partner?

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    1. How common is HPV?
    2. How do you catch HPV or genital warts?
    3. Can HPV be passed between a man and a woman?
    4. Can I be re-infected with HPV?
    5. Should I tell my partner I have HPV?
    6. Should I get the HPV vaccine?

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    HPV viruses

    Human papillomavirus, or HPV, is a common virus that usually doesn’t cause any serious health issues.

    There are over 100 different types of HPV. Some cause verrucas, hand warts or genital warts. Around 40 types are sexually transmitted, but most are fairly harmless. However, a few high-risk types can cause cell changes that can cause cervical cancer or anal cancer. This is why it’s really important for sexually active women to attend their smear tests when they're invited.

    The types of HPV that cause genital warts and other high risk types of HPV are passed on through skin-to-skin contact with the genitals, vaginal, anal or oral sex or sharing sex toys. This means it’s very easy to catch it from your sexual partner – for more information, read on.

    How common is HPV?

    HPV is really common! According to the NHS, most people will get it at some point in their lives, think about warts and verrucas lots of us get from time to time. The good news is that the most high-risk types are currently on the decline.

    In 2008, the government introduced a nationwide HPV vaccination programme in schools for girls aged 12 and 13 to protect against high-risk types that cause cervical cancer. Today, the HPV vaccine is also given to boys of the same age. The current vaccine also protects against genital warts.

    According to Publich Health England, by 2018, rates of high-risk HPV (types 16 and 18) in women aged between 16 and 21 had reduced by 86%. Cases of genital warts declined by 90% in teenage girls, and 70% in teenage boys.

    How do you catch HPV or genital warts?

    The reason HPV is so common is because the virus lives on the skin. This means you can catch it simply through skin-to-skin contact.

    HPV transmission, of the types that cause genital warts, can happen during oral, anal, and vaginal sex, but you can also get it through intimate touching or sharing sex toys. Using condoms and dental dams can help reduce the risk of HPV transmission, but won’t offer complete protection.

    Some people worry about finding out they have HPV when they're married and in what they believe to be a monogamous relationship. But it's important to bear in mind is that the virus can lay dormant in the body for long periods, before becoming active again.  This means that you can catch HPV from your partner even if you're in a monogamous relationship years into it.

    Can HPV be passed between a man and a woman?

    Yes, men can catch HPV from women. The virus can be passed on between sexual partners of any gender.

    However, the virus will be less widespread among younger women who have benefited from the school vaccination programme. Because fewer men and boys have been vaccinated, men who have sex with other men may generally be more at risk of HPV transmission.

    Can I be re-infected with HPV?

    It’s possible to get HPV more than once from the same partner, because there are many different strains.

    It’s also thought that reinfection with the same strain can happen. In theory, it’s possible that a monogamous couple could reinfect one another with the same strain of HPV more than once, but research is still being done to look at this. 

    Should I tell my partner I have HPV?

    Most people who have HPV won’t be aware that they have it, because it doesn’t cause symptoms.

    It’s likely that you’ll only know you have HPV in the following circumstances: 

    • You develop genital warts 
    • You have a cervical screening and high-risk HPV is found

    If you’re diagnosed with genital warts, it’s important to tell your sexual partner. It’s possible to pass on the virus even when there are no visible warts on the skin, so your partner may have it without knowing.

    In the case of high-risk HPV being found during a cervical screening, the situation around transmission to your partner is less black and white. There’s no way to completely avoid transmission of HPV during sex. If you or your partner are male, there's no widely available HPV test for men. But some sexual health clinics might offer anal screening to men who have a high risk of developing anal cancer, e.g. men who have sex with men. 

    Regardless of the situation, it’s normally a good idea to be open, honest, and communicative with your sexual partners. You may also find that telling them about your situation helps you feel less worried.

    Should I get the HPV vaccine?

    The HPV vaccine cannot cure HPV if it’s already in your system before you get the virus – all it can do is offer protection against new infection. If you’re sexually active, there’s a chance you already have some form of HPV in your system.

    Having said that, vaccination could still be beneficial if you’re concerned about contracting high-risk types, or getting genital warts.

    If you went to school in the UK and were eligible for the vaccine but you missed the opportunity, you can get it for free on the NHS up until you’re 25. You may also be eligible if you’re a man who has sex with other men, or if you’re transgender.

    If you’re not eligible for a free vaccine, you can get yours through LloydsPharmacy Online Doctor. Order your Gardasil 9 vaccine online and you can get your injections at your nearest LloydsPharmacy store. 

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    Authors and editors

    • Reviewed and updated by

      Dr Tatjana Street
      GMC number: 4569536
      Date reviewed: 18th May 2021

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